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"Don't Half-Ass This Life" - Note to Self

Hello friends,

Summer is slowly coming to an end.

Around our house, that means back-to-school shopping, getting ready for college, planning schedules, and wondering where the last few months disappeared.

Life doesn't wait for anyone. It just keeps moving.

Lately, that's made me think about something I've been practicing every single day.

Being present.

Not perfectly—but intentionally.

It's so easy to spend our days thinking about everything that's still unfinished. The emails waiting to be answered. The projects still in progress. The problems that need solving. The goals we haven't reached yet.

Before we know it, another week has gone by.

Another season. Another year.

Life is so much bigger than our to-do lists.

I've started reminding myself of something almost every day:

Don't half-ass this life.

Maybe it's an unusual phrase for a mental health newsletter, but it's honest.

I have a healthy mind.
I have a healthy body.
I have people I love.
I still have opportunities to make a difference.

My sister didn't get that chance.

So I owe it to her—and to myself—to live this life fully.

This Sunday, I slowed down.

I rested.

I reflected.

I spent time talking with a dear friend.

I consoled another friend who had just lost her mentor.

I savored every bite of the lunch our son cooked for us.

I savored every bite of the mango I shared with our daughter.

I stole a quiet cup of tea with my husband.

Nothing extraordinary happened.

And yet...

That's exactly what life is made of.

Sometimes I catch myself feeling like I'm falling behind.

Behind in speaking.

Behind in writing.

Behind in launching the podcast.

Behind in all the dreams I still have.

Then I stop.

A while ago, I wrote a letter to my future self.

Every now and then, I go back and read it.

It reminds me that I'm exactly where I need to be today—not because everything is finished, but because I'm still taking the next step.

One conversation.

One newsletter.

One podcast episode.

One day at a time.

Speaking of the podcast...it's officially in creation mode, and I couldn't be more grateful.

I'm having so much fun building it—from choosing the microphone and learning the technology to designing the artwork and imagining the conversations we'll have together.

There's something beautiful about creating before anyone sees the finished product.

I can't wait to share it with you.

If you've read this newsletter all the way to the end, thank you.

Truly.

I'd love to hear from you.

Is there a mental health topic you'd like me to explore on the Path To Hope™ Podcast?

Is there someone you'd love to hear interviewed?

Or perhaps...would you like to be a guest?

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I'd love to stay connected.

Until our next conversation,

Saroni
Author • Speaker • Mental Health Advocate

Founder, Path To Hope™
Owner, Ellie Mental Health Concord, MO

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